Harmon and Carolyn are the consummate Mom and Dad and dearly love children of all ages. They
go out of their way to assist other parents in their child rearing
endeavors and are often called upon as Aunt Carolyn and Uncle Harmon. Together
they have five children in their extended family, three girls and two
boys. Carolyn’s two girls are Carla, 32 and Tanya, 30. Harmon's children
from his previous marriages are Tyler Jon, 19, Danielle, 16 and Isaac
13.
Carolyn's Children:
Both of Carolyn's girls are married with no children as yet, and they
are both career women with solid husbands at their sides.
Carla
has a diploma in Business Management and is living her childhood dream
working as a professional equestrian rider in her spare time while
continuing her business career as a self employed staging professional
providing decorating services for Ontario real estate market to assist
clients in presenting and selling their homes. Having been on a horse
since she was two years old, she has accumulated many medals and honors
over the years for her professional riding skills in hunter and jumper
competitions. With Carla's past experience in farm management and
training horses for investors, she is always on the lookout for new
opportunities to further her part time passion in the "equestrian
arena".
Tanya has pursued the academic world in the field of
Marine Biology and since she completed her Masters degree in
Oceanography, is currently living near Halifax, Nova Scotia and is employed by the local university in the area of research. From
the time that eight year old Tanya poured over Jacque Cousteau books
and literature on marine life and the oceans of the world, she and her
mom knew her future.
Harmon's Children:
Tyler Jonathon Wilfred, Harmon's first son was born on December 31, 1987 and adopted into the Wilfred family on January 9, 1988.
At age 38 Harmon was a father for the first time in his life and was
bubbling over with joy! Due to the divorce that was sought by his wife
Sandra in February, 1989 and the hotly contested court battle,
Harmon's relationship with Tyler was cut short by a vengeful family
court judge. Due to an incredibly unfair ruling, he has not had any
contact or information about his son since. His fond memories of Tyler
were their times together from birth to two, from
his participation in Tyler's infant night feedings to his two year old
antics playing horsy on Harmon's back, or atop his spring loaded rocking
horse named Bob. Harmon's last memory of Tyler at two years old was
him standing on the footpath waving, "Bye Dad".
To My Son Tyler Jon,
You
probably don't remember much about me, but please know that I am your
father and I would give anything to see you and hold you in my arms
again. I know you are nearly 20, but young men still deserve to be
hugged by their dad. I love you my son. If you see this message, please
e-mail me and send a photo to harmon@luminadiem.com. Love, Dad
Danielle Marie Wilfred,
Harmon's first little girl with then wife Dearna, was a delight from
the moment she emerged into the world with her Dad assisting at the
event as his wife's birth coach. From birth to age six, her big bright
eyes were enough to melt the heart of any man, let alone her father.
Harmon especially enjoyed her sensitive and artistic nature. They sang
together, danced together, read together and even prayed together
through age six. Since that time, due to a divorce that was actually
linked to his previous divorce, his relationship with his lovely
daughter was cruely cut short by the same Colorado family court system
that stole his son Tyler.
Dearest Danielle,
You have
always been and will always be my lovely little girl. I know you are a
young lady now and I can just imagine how beautiful you are at 16 years
old. Know I love you and miss you so very much. Please continue
to watch over Isaac as you always have done, and say your bedtime
prayers together as I always taught you. Boy, would I love to give you
a hug right now! When you see this message, please e-mail me and send a
recent photo to harmon@luminadiem.com. Love, Dad
Happy
Birthday Danielle – 2009; You are of age now and can make your own
decisions about your life. I hope they include me some day. All the
best my darling daughter. Here is a poem I wrote just for you to
remind you to stop and smell the roses as you continue on your way....
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Happy Birthday Danielle! |
All my Love, Dad
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Isaac Arthur Wilfred,
Harmon's second son and first biological male child certainly lived up
to the meaning of his name from the moment of birth. Isaac means
laughter, and Harmon's memory of him through age 4 was Isaac always
smiling and laughing as they played together. He was always bold and
courageous in everything he tried, from climbing up the highest ladders
at the playground, to leaping into Harmon's arms in 5 feet of water at
the holiday swimming pool.
Hello Isaac,
You
were always the bravest and most loving little boy I have ever known. I
remember your enthusiastic hugs with such joy, and that sunshine smile
of yours is unforgettable. You and Danielle are my sunshine and I miss
you both so very much. I love you with all my heart and look forward to
seeing and hugging you again. Please hang in there and take good care
of your sister until we can all be together again. Send me an e-mail
and photo of yourself when you can at harmon@luminadiem.com. Love Dad
Happy
Birthday Isaac – 2009; Being a young man now, the question of truth is
a matter of growing out of the fantasy of childhood and into the
reality of manhood in a world where KNOWING the difference can make ALL
the difference! My greatest wish for you is to truly KNOW the
difference and my gift is this poem in the hope that you will always
seek the Source of Truth within you as you continue on your way...
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The Source of Truth
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Happy Birhtday Isaac, 2009 |
All my Love, Dad
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Not a day
goes by without Harmon's children being in his thoughts and prayers.
The most special moments Harmon had with his children before they were
taken from him, was reading them bedtime stories that always ended
with, "... and they all lived happily ever after". Certainly this is
the happy ending that Harmon has been fighting for all these years and
is now continuing this effort under www.luminadiem.com
to bring the truth regarding the US Government corruption that has
separated him from his loved ones into the light of day and restore him
to all of his children.
