Children
Harmon and Carolyn are the consummate Mom and Dad and dearly love children of all ages. They go out of their way to assist other parents in their child rearing endeavors and are often called upon as Aunt Carolyn and Uncle Harmon. Together they have five children in their extended family, three girls and two boys. Carolyn’s two girls are Carla, 32 and Tanya, 30. Harmon's children from his previous marriages are Tyler Jon, 19, Danielle, 16 and Isaac 13.
Carolyn's Children:
Both of Carolyn's girls are married with no children as yet, and they are both career women with solid husbands at their sides.
Carla has a diploma in Business Management and is living her childhood dream working as a professional equestrian rider in her spare time while continuing her business career as a self employed staging professional providing decorating services for Ontario real estate market to assist clients in presenting and selling their homes. Having been on a horse since she was two years old, she has accumulated many medals and honors over the years for her professional riding skills in hunter and jumper competitions. With Carla's past experience in farm management and training horses for investors, she is always on the lookout for new opportunities to further her part time passion in the "equestrian arena".
Tanya has pursued the academic world in the field of Marine Biology and since she completed her Masters degree in Oceanography, is currently living near Halifax, Nova Scotia and is employed by the local university in the area of research. From the time that eight year old Tanya poured over Jacque Cousteau books and literature on marine life and the oceans of the world, she and her mom knew her future.
Harmon's Children:
 Tyler Jonathon Wilfred, Harmon's first son was born on December 31, 1987 and adopted into the Wilfred family on January 9, 1988. At age 38 Harmon was a father for the first time in his life and was bubbling over with joy! Due to the divorce that was sought by his wife Sandra in February, 1989 and the hotly contested court battle, Harmon's relationship with Tyler was cut short by a vengeful family court judge. Due to an incredibly unfair ruling, he has not had any contact or information about his son since. His fond memories of Tyler were their times together from birth to two, from his participation in Tyler's infant night feedings to his two year old antics playing horsy on Harmon's back, or atop his spring loaded rocking horse named Bob. Harmon's last memory of Tyler at two years old was him standing on the footpath waving, "Bye Dad".
To My Son Tyler Jon,
You probably don't remember much about me, but please know that I am your father and I would give anything to see you and hold you in my arms again. I know you are nearly 20, but young men still deserve to be hugged by their dad. I love you my son. If you see this message, please e-mail me and send a photo to harmon@luminadiem.com. Love, Dad
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TYLER JON! I truly want 2008 to be the year that we can finally meet and get to know each other. After more than 17 years of being apart, it's hard to imagine I know, but I would like to give it a go as soon as I am free to travel. In the mean time, if you would like to come to New Zealand for a visit, please e-mail me and let me know. We can make it a great holiday for the both of us. Have a great day on your birthday!
Much Love and hugs! Dad
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 Danielle Marie Wilfred, Harmon's first little girl with then wife Dearna, was a delight from the moment she emerged into the world with her Dad assisting at the event as his wife's birth coach. From birth to age six, her big bright eyes were enough to melt the heart of any man, let alone her father. Harmon especially enjoyed her sensitive and artistic nature. They sang together, danced together, read together and even prayed together through age six. Since that time, due to a divorce that was actually linked to his previous divorce, his relationship with his lovely daughter was cruely cut short by the same Colorado family court system that stole his son Tyler.
Dearest Danielle,
You have always been and will always be my lovely little girl. I know you are a young lady now and I can just imagine how beautiful you are at 16 years old. Know I love you and miss you so very much. Please continue to watch over Isaac as you always have done, and say your bedtime prayers together as I always taught you. Boy, would I love to give you a hug right now! When you see this message, please e-mail me and send a recent photo to harmon@luminadiem.com. Love, Dad
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANIELLE! I miss you and Isaac so much and am doing everything I can to be able to see you guys again. Please e-mail me and send some pictures of you and Isaac to harmon@luminadiem.com. Here is a birthday song and an MP3 just for you!
Love you Lots! Dad
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 Isaac Arthur Wilfred, Harmon's second son and first biological male child certainly lived up to the meaning of his name from the moment of birth. Isaac means laughter, and Harmon's memory of him through age 4 was Isaac always smiling and laughing as they played together. He was always bold and courageous in everything he tried, from climbing up the highest ladders at the playground, to leaping into Harmon's arms in 5 feet of water at the holiday swimming pool.
Hello Isaac,
You were always the bravest and most loving little boy I have ever known. I remember your enthusiastic hugs with such joy, and that sunshine smile of yours is unforgettable. You and Danielle are my sunshine and I miss you both so very much. I love you with all my heart and look forward to seeing and hugging you again. Please hang in there and take good care of your sister until we can all be together again. Send me an e-mail and photo of yourself when you can at harmon@luminadiem.com. Love Dad
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ISAAC! I think of you and Daneille often and look forward to hearing from you and planning a visit. Perhaps some day before too long you can come to New Zealand and we can spend some time fishing or hiking in the mountains. I look forward to seeing your smiling face in person when God permits. Have a great day my son!
Love you Forever! Dad
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Not a day goes by without Harmon's children being in his thoughts and prayers. The most special moments Harmon had with his children before they were taken from him, was reading them bedtime stories that always ended with, "... and they all lived happily ever after". Certainly this is the happy ending that Harmon has been fighting for all these years and is now continuing this effort under www.luminadiem.com to bring the truth regarding the US Government corruption that has separated him from his loved ones into the light of day and restore him to all of his children.
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